con·nec·tion - “a relationship in which a person, thing, or idea is linked or associated with something else.”

Connections are so important and they can mean so many different things. We can be connected to our jobs, connected to friends, connected to nature and even connected to material things such as our possessions. I want to talk about connections to people – relationships, as they are so important for everyone. In this time of Covid, we may feel as though we have lost some of our connection with the world, with people and even possibly with ourselves.

For people on the autism spectrum connections are very important, but they are also very difficult. You see they want to connect, but they don’t always know how to do it and it can also be very frustrating for them. I see this in my own children. They both have difficulty making connections with people in different ways. But what I have tried to do this summer is connect with them where they are at, on their level to bring us closer.

With our daughter, I find that trying to relate to her in the moments where she is capable and willing about things that interest her and are important to her. This includes art, videos and games. For our son, we connect through activities. We both like to swim, paddleboard, canoe, binge watch Netflix – so this is what we do to connect. As I look at this summer, I am so happy to have had these special connections as I feel it helps bring our relationship closer which is so important.

I think sometimes the outside world cannot always understand the connections that can be made for those who have different needs and abilities. They are real. These people deserve and want to be valued and want to connect and belong just like everyone else. Often times I notice that for people on the autism spectrum who aren’t as verbal, are left out and that gives them even more of a feeling of not belonging. We need to change this by asking how we can help, what ways are best to connect, asking questions.

At Amberlea Church, we are inclusive and want to come along side of families with these needs, connect with them and bring them into a closer relationship with God, no matter what that may look like for them. We strive to build relationships with people and help them become part of a community that nurtures and cares about their entire family.

Scripture says,

“Therefore encourage one another and build each other up.” I Thessalonians 5:11

We would love to connect with you and your family!

Shelly Wedge
Execeptional Families Coordinator
Amberlea Church